Let's just be clear that the following are non-negotiables:
Maintain work-life balance.
Sister said it best: even when you're not at work or at the office, you are either think of or preparing for work. That means a lot of your life revolves at work. Therefore, there is nothing wrong with picking up something on the side to help get it off your mind for a little.
You do not own any assets or are responsible for anyone else but yourself (maybe your parents).
Take this opportunity now to explore your career as much as you can.
You can't please everybody.
Suck it up, you just can't. And this applies to work and the love life. Share or keep it to yourself and fuck them all.
This is not an exhaustive list of needs, and will be up expanded upon in the future.
