a common theme has been popping up among my friends, and it's that they are out looking for someone. some maybe be phobic to the idea of a relationship, but regardless they want someone special. and i thought it was a bit ironic to "want someone" yet not make it official, and it got me to thinking...
individuals can fool themselves into thinking that "we don't want a relationship," but the reality is that we're just afraid to commit and invest so much into a person just to... get hurt. all over again. We all want someone special though, someone to call our own, but we just don't want to get hurt. and no one likes to hear this, but time heals all. maybe you're thinking "but i don't want to have to invest in someone all over again," but when you're ready, you WILL want to invest all over again.
It all points to one of the basic tenets of liking someone: fear of rejection
"all good" by mo thugs
If I told you once
Then I told you twice
That you got to get to know me
There's more to relationships
Than jumping in the sheets
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